Jul 17, 2026 | Wedding Tips
How to Write Your Wedding Vows: A Guide for People Who’ve Never Written Anything Before At some point between booking the venue and buying the outfit, most couples decide they’re going to write their own vows. It sounds lovely at the point of the decision,...
Jul 17, 2026 | Wedding Tips
What to Wear to a Barn Wedding: A Guest’s Guide If the invitation on your fridge says “barn wedding” and you’ve spent the last week wondering whether that’s the same as a normal wedding or something else again, this post is for you. The...
Jul 15, 2026 | Wedding Tips
Save the Dates and Wedding Invitations: When to Send What There’s a particular kind of wedding-planning anxiety that hits couples every few weeks throughout the eighteen months of an engagement, and it’s always some version of the same question. Have we...
Jul 9, 2026 | Wedding Tips
How to Choose a Wedding Venue: A Sussex Couple’s Guide Choosing your wedding venue is the biggest decision you’ll make in the whole of your planning, and it’s often the first proper one. Everything else — the date, the guest list, the suppliers, the...
Jul 7, 2026 | Wedding Tips
Most couples come into wedding planning with the same picture in their heads. Ceremony by noon, sit-down meal, speeches, first dance, bar until midnight. It’s the format everyone defaults to — partly because it’s familiar, partly because nobody mentions...
Jun 30, 2026 | Wedding Tips
Planning a Sussex Wedding From London: A Practical Guide A significant chunk of the couples we host at Selden Barns live in London. They’re a London couple planning a Sussex wedding, and the decision to do it that way has usually come from the same handful of...