Office hours vary from Monday to Sunday. You can speak to Charlotte our wedding coordinator, who is available, Monday, Wednesday and Friday, from 4:30 pm to 9 pm, or Saturday and Sunday at varied times.

Our email address is

The venue can support from 30 guests, up to a maximum of 230.

Check-in is from  4 pm and check-out by 9 am with breakfast at 9:15 am

The evening comes to an end at midnight. Due to compliance with the licensing requirements, live music finishes at 10.30 pm with a DJ or recorded music able to play until 11.45 pm

If you decide to proceed, we ask for a £500 booking fee, to secure your chosen date. This is non-refundable if you change your mind, however, the £500 does get deducted from your venue price and your chosen date may be amended at a later date, subject to availability.

The rest of your payment schedule is below:

9 months prior to your big day – payment required to bring you up to half of the Venue hire cost.

2 months prior to your big day – The other half of the Venue hire cost is due.

1 month before – Guest numbers are finalised – Decoration and Drinks payment due.

2 Weeks before – B&B room payment required.

There are facilities for disposing of cigarettes either at the front or rear of the venue. Smoking is not permitted inside the venue.  This encompasses all internal areas of Selden Barns including bedrooms. Anyone found to have smoked in the room could be liable for a fine of up to £200, along with a fumigation charge of up to £100.

Registered guide and hearing dogs are always welcome here at Selden Barns. Unfortunately, due to health and safety reasons, no other dogs are permitted.

We try to be flexible here at Selden Barns, but we do ask that you use one of our recommended suppliers for your wedding catering, as it’s one of the most important parts of the day & we like to assure we use caterers that offer both excellent service as well as excellent food. You will understand that it is our reputation as a venue that is at stake.

Time and time again, Brides & Grooms comment on how the grounds look beautiful like their wedding was the first one we had ever done.  This is a testament to our hardworking team of staff, but to assist with this we do have some restrictions.



We love confetti but kindly ask that your guests only use the biodegradable variety as this is better for the environment. Confetti cannons are allowed but must not be of the foil kind as this is extremely difficult to clear up. We have found that bubbles make a suitable alternative, though not on the dance floor as this can make it slippery.

Chocolate or Champagne Fountains

These can be permitted if a suitable floor covering is used underneath them to ensure no damage to carpets or decor.

Fireworks, Laser Displays or Naked Flame/Chinese Lanterns

We love fireworks but only from a reputable professional supplier who must supervise the display. Due to compliance with planning and environment agencies, and out of courtesy to our neighbours and local farming community, Selden Barns only allow the use of ‘low noise’ firework displays. These can be supplied by many local firework companies and all remnants must be collected by the company so as not to endanger surrounding livestock. We do not allow laser displays or Naked flame / Chinese lanterns due to surrounding livestock.

Cancellations must be made in writing and if received more than 9 calendar months prior to the event any interim payment will be refunded. Unfortunately, the deposit is non-refundable.

Cancellation charges will be applicable after this as per our terms and conditions of booking, therefore, we recommend you consider wedding insurance.